Why Relationships Fail
Some relationships can be handled with relative ease and comfort, whereas some relationships may be such that it is very complex in nature and may leave a person confused, dissatisfied and depressed as it does not work out the way he/she wants it to. Many interpersonal dynamics, personality characteristics, level of understanding and maturity decide the turn the relationship will take.
One of the predominant reasons why relationships do not succeed is because of lack of communication between the partners. Either the partner may be very hesitant to talk out his/her thoughts, may not trust the partner to understand the sentiments, may feel that the partner does not really listen or is biased against the opinions being expressed.
Such a situation can break not only the level of communication between them but also give rise to a feeling of rejection, of being misunderstood, of not being valued or appreciated, and this erodes the basic attachment and emotional connection shared by the partners.
Stagnation is another reason why relationships become uninteresting, un-stimulating, dull and monotonous. Once a relationship is established, couples may take it easy by not planning anything special for each other, taking one another for granted, stop doing anything romantic or something that makes each of them feel special and connected.
This deviation or diversion can prove to be the cause of discontent, estrangement, and may give rise to a feeling of void, emptiness and dissatisfaction with the partner.
The gap between the emotional and intellectual maturity of the partner can also be one of the reasons. If the pace of mental growth of one of them is more and if the other one is stagnated with limited ideas, has narrow view or vision or contradicts vastly with that of the partner, clashes may occur. If the differences are fundamental and there are no compromises or accommodating attitude, things may take a turn for the worse.
Ego, lack of initiative or proactive behavior could be one of the reasons. Partners may not take the responsibility of making the relationship work on themselves. They may wait on each other and allow the gap in the relationship to widen.
This may be because of their ego, self consciousness, hesitation, lack of interest, indifference or apathy too. It can give rise to discontent, misunderstanding, feeling of being unvalued, unloved, not cared for and can have damaging consequences.
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