Why Long Distance Relationships Fail
Long distance relationships in some cases have worked well if the partners have known each other for a long time, if they have been married and share a bonding that is not affected by distance, and if they take appropriate steps to be in touch with each other.
Nature of the distance also matters. If the distance is such that the couple can visit each other at suitable time intervals or if the time of separation is relatively short (like a year or so), the couple may pull it off and the relationship may be the same or even get strengthened during the course of separation as partners may just feel how important they are to each other.
In cases where it fizzles out, there could be many underlying reasons for it. One of them may be that the relationship was just beginning to be formed and there is this separation that is sudden and the partners are not sure that they have such deep feelings for each other that the distance cannot affect it.
Relationships that are in a nascent stage may not succeed as the emotional attachment and closeness is not strong enough to keep the relationship going.
Another reason could be lack of initiative among couples. For any relationship to sustain, there must be a situation and a circumstance such that partners feel the need to be with each other, to be linked with each other whatever the reason, to be bonded with each other in any manner possible. If such kind of involvement is absent, the relationship or lack of it doesn’t make any difference and slowly the partners may feel that communication is just a formality that they are doing, and later on even this may stop.
Partners may wait on each other to make the move. For example, one of them will wait till the partner calls, will not call first, will unreasonably think that the partner does not want to contact etc. Such kind of reservations or interference of ego will damage the relationship.
The attraction towards each other may fade with the passage of time, partners may feel that they would like to be in a relationship where there is more proximity and intimacy, and therefore may end long distance relationship.
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