Unsure of Your Partner’s Feelings
Posted by
jyoti on Friday 25 Sep 2009
One of the dilemmas you may face when you are carrying on with a guy is whether he is committed to you or not, whether there is a seriousness about the relationship, are you moving towards a stable and long term relationship, is the relationship really existing or is it just for the time being and will pass out.
You may feel insecure, unsure, vulnerable, troubled, restless and anxious about the way things are proceeding. You may need verbal commitment or assurance that the guy is interested in you and not just having a passing affair. You may feel the need to be sure that the guy has a strong/serious inclination to make the relationship work.
It is very important for women to start trusting and confiding in the partner. Without a sense of direction you may not invest your time, effort and sincerity in the relationship, and open up yourself to the hurt and disappointment the guy may cause.
One way for you to know how the person feels about you may be to ask him upfront what he thinks. The element of risk is that the person may not really know how he feels and may not know how to respond to the question. His response may fall short of your expectations.
The best way may be to flow with the pace of the partner. Be alert to the kind of effort he takes, the sensitivity and maturity he displays, the sincerity he shows, the interest and initiative he takes, moves he makes, how much does he reach out and how far is he ready/willing to take you. There are sure hints in these unspoken gestures, and can give you an idea as to the direction in which he is trying to steer the relationship.
Some partners may speak in such a way that they won’t be straightforward, but will expect you to read in between the lines; but there may an element of misreading that you need to be careful about.
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