The Importance of Courtship Period
Courtship period is of extreme importance in cases where the marriage has been arranged by the family members, with the permission and willingness of the couple themselves.
In relationships that culminate into marriage after a romantic affair for years or months, the partners have a hang of the attitude, characteristics, temper, personality, qualities and flaws of each other. However, incase of arranged marriage the courtship period is the time that the individuals get to know each other, to open up to each other, know the qualities, drawbacks and even fall in love.
This period is important for the individuals to learn more about each other and also learn to adjust, compromise, accept and absorb changes that are going to take place in their life when they get married to each other. They can develop an intimate, warm, confiding and trusting bond during this time, which will enable smoother transition into married life. The hesitation, shyness, reservations will be so much reduced due to the bonding and familiarity developed during courtship period.
This is also the time when the couple gets a lot of privacy. The couples have immediate accountability to each other only and not to each others family members. So there is free personal space, interaction, discussion and exchange of ideas.
The courtship period is also the time to discuss about sexual attitudes and feelings so that the sexual tension or hesitation after marriage is reduced. Discussing about sexuality, feelings, hidden fear, discomfort with sex related matters, inhibitions about performing well will actually ease the tension and hesitation after marriage. It can pave the way for a more satisfying and fulfilling sexual life.
Couples must also enjoy courtship period as this is the time when they have fewer responsibilities and restrictions. After marriage, the couple may not be able to dodge the family members and have a leisurely, private time, may have responsibilities towards in-laws, there would be some kind of pressure or tension that may make it difficult to spend leisurely romantic hours with each other. So courtship period is the one you must use fully.
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