Save a Failing Relationship
Posted by
jyoti on Saturday 14 Nov 2009
A relationship that is in the verge of breaking up can still be revived and restored if both the partners are keen in making things work for themselves. Unless there is a sincere intention and inclination to work out issues in the relationship, chances of successfully restoring the relationship are scarce. The process of restoration may also require a lot of patience and understanding.
You need to compromise and generate breakthrough solutions that are acceptable to both of you. Firstly, make up your mind about the relationship; how important it is to you, is the difference so strong that you cannot resolve it, how far can you stretch your limits and reach an understanding, what is your willingness and interest in the relationship, what is to lose if both of you decide to go separate ways etc. Both the partners need to go through this kind of introspection before proceeding towards reaching an understanding.
Be open minded. Remember that the intention is to save the relationship. Carry out your dialogue keeping this purpose in mind. This will prevent you from making some harsh comments about each other, saying something that may hurt each other and cause further grievance and damage. Don’t be self centered. Put aside your grievances and try to see things from the perspective of the partner.
Do not let ego take prominence. Take the initiative if you feel the relationship is worth saving. You be proactive if the partner is not. Don’t get affected by notions or assumptions that the partner no longer wants to be in the relationship with you. Be open and ask the partner directly about his/her stand on the matter.
Be ready to let go. If you hang on to grievances, anger, hurt, disappointment etc, you will not be able to proceed. Don’t be very touchy and sentimental about practical, logical matters. Rational understanding is better than attaching excessive sentiments to an issue.
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