Overcoming the Fear of Intimacy

Posted by writer on Saturday 06 Sep 2008
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    Romance is incomplete without a physical affinity towards each other. But with the kind of social set up we grow up in, it is hard for us to accept this side of our personality. We deny our urges, and if we feel the need for this intimacy, we feel as if we are doing something wrong. As a result of such feelings, a lot of people remain unable to express this. However here are a few suggestions for you to be able to feel closer to your partner

    First of all, you need to choose your partner well. If you guys are compatible and are able to be friends as well as lovers, it is wonderful. If you go in for a person who is not at all compatible with you, there are chances that the relationship might fail and you end up heart broken.

    Secondly, communicate well with your partner. Talk freely about anything that comes to your mind. To feel close to someone, it is extremely important to be able to express yourself without the fear of being misunderstood. Talk about your wants and desires, and see how intimate both of you grow.

    Thirdly, never try to be someone else in a relationship. Just be yourself. Your partner should be able to relate to the person he or she is with. Be open about yourself and your past. If there were any problems and your partner understands that, there is nothing more intimate.

    Fourthly, it is extremely important for you to show your needs and take time out for each other. Spending as much time with each other will give you the opportunity to know more about each other. Spending leisure hours together bonds both of you in a lifetime of closeness. Let your partner do little things for you. And you shall see how close you grow to each other.

    Finally, explore your sensations. Make sure your relationship has a lot of physical closeness. Know your partner’s body well and also what pleases them. Tell them what you want and what pleases you the most. Don’t let this be all about having sex, make love instead. Talking about your innermost desires will only make you physically more intimate to your partner, and lead to a satisfying relationship.

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