Insecurities in Live in Relationships

Posted by jyoti on Wednesday 29 Jul 2009
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    Live-in relationships have plus points such as flexibility, lower accountability to each other, time to adjust to each others before committing to marriage, lesser expectations and responsibilities due to absence of formal commitment, lesser interference and more privacy. At the same time it may have a flip side too especially those arising from the lack of a binding nature in the relationship.

    The insecurities may be due to fear that the partner may not stick around, one of them may dump the other, lesser assurance that the partner will be in the relationship inspite of difficulties or conflicts, one of them may easily walk out and so on. The relationship becomes vulnerable due to the lack of a permanent structure or formal binding between the partners.

    In marriage there is an effort to keep the relation going due to various factors such as formal commitment, bond of marriage, pressure of family, feeling of more accountability and responsibility towards each other, and many a times moving out of marriage may not even be considered as an option and partners may adapt and adjust to keep the marriage intact.

    This kind of effort to keep the relationship intact may be missing in live-in relationships, as there is relative ease with which partners can move in and out of relationships due to absence of the above-mentioned factors.

    Insecurity could also arise as partners may not be able to influence or exercise some amount of control over each other for fear that the other may dislike it and decide to end the relationship. The sense of individual freedom and choice may be more and this may reduce the feeling of togetherness and accountability in the relationship.

    There may be insecurities regarding the future of the relationship as one of them may just prefer the relationship to be this way and the other one may prefer marriage and a structured family life.

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    One Comment on “Insecurities in Live in Relationships”

    • aditya wrote on 27 Apr 10, 11:38

      i want one research or thesis, which is done on LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP.,so, can you help me…?

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