In Relationship with a Married Man?
Posted by
jyoti on Wednesday 21 Oct 2009
Having a healthy relationship with a married man may be more complex than you could imagine. At the point when you are at the peak of happiness, you feel best being with this person, you feel that you are completely in love with him, you may be sure that you will make any kind of compromises and adjustments to be in a relationship with him. Things may take a round about turn with passage of time.
There may be some very strong emotional changes that you may have to confront and be prepared for, for the sake of your own sanity and emotional well being. The initial excitement and love of the relationship will at some point be influenced by the parallel life that the man is leading.
Realize that despite the fact and assurances that the man makes about loving you, his first priority will be his immediate family and marital family. You are the one who knows that he has a family and a wife but the wife does not know that he is having a relationship with you. Therefore the onus and pressure of keeping things working is always going to be on you.
You are the one who is always going to have to make compromises, adjust, console your heart always, be away from the person for long hours. You cannot complain that the person is spending more time with the marital family than you. This is a pre condition and a given thing that comes with this relationship.
He may be a great source of strength and moral support, but may never be able to make himself physically present when you need to be comforted or at times of crisis too. These are realities that you may have to face at a point or other. You must be very connected at an intellectual and spiritual level. You need to have more understanding, enduring spirit, resilience and courage to bear this time of separation and moments when things may just seem very unfair.
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