How to Make Someone Like You
Being liked by others is a wonderful feeling. The fact that people like you, want you, miss not being with you, value your presence and think of you as an indispensable part of their life can be a very rewarding and satisfying feeling.
Being a good human being is the key, and other accessories like a good personality, good manners and etiquettes, appearance, body language will just add flavour and enhance the inner qualities that you possess. It is important to have both internal and external qualities so that you can strike the right balance and bring out the best in yourself.
It is said that first impression is the last impression. This may mean that your outward appearance may be a benchmark for people to decide if they want to interact with you or not. However, appearance can surely be deceptive. It is the inner qualities you possess, like kindness, concern, empathy, sincerity etc that can overpower your physical appearance and make you endearing to people.
Whether in personal relationships or professional relationships, it is the basic core human values that far outweigh the farce of glamour, fashion and beauty. It is the inner beauty that will take you through. That is the real substance that can attract and create a bond between you and people you interact with.
Validate people. Acknowledge them. Accept them. People fear rejection, being unappreciated, not valued, not respected, being taken for granted, of creating a poor impression on anyone. All of us need to be assured about the worth and value we have. Give people what is due to them, and see the change in their interaction with you.
Be empathetic. Understand and feel what the person is trying to say. The more you are connected at an emotional level, share an emotional understanding, show your care and concern, reach out to people, the more they will reciprocate to you and reach out for you.
Do not leave sincerity, honesty, integrity and loyalty. Don’t be concerned about the gains from the relationship. Give what you can to others. Do not bother about what is in it for you.
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