How to Make Friends with Girls
Girls do have high and unique benchmarks before they make friends with anyone. They are a bit reserved and cautious by nature when it comes to befriending people of the opposite sex. So the task of establishing a relationship may seem difficult.
Begin with appearance. For many of the girls, the starting point is the outward personality of the person. They judge a person’s inner qualities by the outward manifestation. So you need to take effort to groom yourself well. A decent formal kind of clothing, well kept hair, neat and clean clothes and shoes are impressive to women.
They tend to misconstrue and form poor opinion about men who dress overly, are at par with the latest fashion, dress in a way that they catch attention, or dress in an unconventional uncommon way. Similarly, the hair has to be done well and maintained decently so that you do not give an impression of an ‘I don’t care’ or ‘rough and tough’ sort of guy.
Be polite. Girls take an aversion to men who have loud manners, very open body language and high pitched voice. They may mistake it as a sign of over confidence, attention seeking behavior, superiority complex, and may form an opinion that the guy is proud, haughty, just fashionable and no brains, spoilt brat and so on.
Do not be very upfront and ask the girl for an introduction unless some level of familiarity is there. Women’s senses get alerted and their first instinct may be to doubt the man who is trying to befriend her. She may take it wrongly thinking that you are out of take advantage of her, do not have good intentions, are intruding into her space and so on.
Be honest and sincere. Clarity of thought and expression are important. The girl should not feel that you have hidden intentions at the time of asking for friendship. Be patient and confident.
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