How to Handle a Married Man Interested in You
Posted by
jyoti on Wednesday 09 Sep 2009
You may face a situation where a married man, who may be your colleague, acquaintance from a social club or hobby group displays interest in you. He may not say this openly; but his manners, his way of interacting with you, care and concern, the intimacy with you, the way he conducts himself in your presence may make you feel that the relationship is not merely that of friendship, but is taking another turn.
It is for you to decide the stand you must take, keeping in mind your status (marital or single), his marital status, implications of letting him on, consequence it would have on both your lives. The attraction may sometimes be mutual, but clarity of your mind, logic and reasoning, consideration for morality aspects should be able to help you in taking the right decision.
If you decide that this person is special to you in the sense that you care for him, value his company and support, but not in a romantic way, there has to be a proper and smooth way of communicating this to him. The best way is to use subtle ways to indicate what he means to you rather than choosing an outspoken, confrontational approach.
Prioritize his requests depending upon the seriousness of it. Do not ignore him completely. Accept some of his requests, like say joining him for tea, helping him professionally or in the activities that you share. Decline requests that will lead to spending more intimate and emotional time with each other. Avoid going for movies, picnics with him.
You can pop in questions about his family life, his wife, kids from time to time, so that he feels that you like being friends with him and also take interest in his family. So he may feel that you are not a person who would enter a relationship with him being aware of his marital life.
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