How to be Successful in Online Dating?
Online dating is very popular now-a-days. While online dating can be convenient, yet it can be dangerous as well. You should know what you are getting into before you take the plunge. People can mislead you, and you need to be smart. Don’t ever trust anyone completely till you have completely verified the facts about them.
But we are here to talk about a successful online date and not to scare you. So let’s begin by saying that the first thing that attracts someone to you online is your profile. Your profile picture speaks volumes about you. A lot of people can judge you just by looking at your photo. If possible, abstain from putting up pictures of models or film stars, which can be a major turnoff. In your profile, be as truthful as possible. Don’t lie; if you get caught later, it smashes your image.
Reach out to a date with utmost sincerity. Write personalized mails to them to make them feel special. Let your personality come out in the mail you write. Like you would try and woo your date in a real life situation, your mail has to woo the person in this virtual situation.
Do abstain from being too pushy. If you want the other person to feel comfortable with you, you need to give them space. If you are a guy, make sure that you don’t pester the girl for her address or phone number. That makes you scary. You can give her your phone number instead and ask her to give you a call, if she wants. If she calls, you would know that she trusts you.
Women, when you are dating for the first time, please do not give your address or telephone number. Take our time in knowing the person and rely on your gut feeling. When you are going to meet your date, make sure you meet a very public place and avoid wearing revealing clothes.
Let your discussions be very basic so that both of you are comfortable with each other. Once you meet for the first time, you will get a fair idea about the person and you can then decide if you want to meet that person again or not. If you do, than that means your date has been successful and you can look forward to a special relationship in the future.