Handling a Moody Girlfriend
Posted by
jyoti on Thursday 15 Oct 2009
A moody girlfriend could be really unpredictable, extreme in behavior and responses, may react in an unconventional way, may appear unfriendly and aggressive. She may be annoying and irritating at times. You may find it confusing and troubling to deal with the partner when she is going through one such mood swing.
If you find that the partner is in a foul mood, ask her about it. Do not ignore it or act as if you do not know she is bothered with something. If the partner responds and answers well to your question, help her by saying ‘I understand’, ‘I am with you’, ‘how would you like me to help you’, ‘what do you feel like doing’ etc. This may help the partner to recover better as she finds a source of support and understanding.
If the partner does not want to answer to your questions, leave it at that. Do not press her to tell you what the matter is. Pressurizing her to tell you the problem may irritate her more. Be silent. Let her set the pace and flow of conversation. Do not take her reservation of confiding in you wrongly. Don’t be hurt that the partner is not telling you what is bothering her. Let her resolve it in her own way.
Do not complain about her mood. Understand that a mood swing is her way of coping with some issue that is upsetting her. The mood swing is not directed at you or because of you. It is her way of resolving issues that are creating an internal conflict within her.
Don’t say that she has spoiled the meeting due to the foul mood, has acted unreasonably, disappointed you and so on. This may make her even more miserable.
Tell her that you would be eager to help in any way that you can. Put your feelings and plans on hold if the partner is going through a mood swing.
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