Handling a Boss Making Advances
A boss making advances to you could sometimes be flattering. If you are inclined to your boss romantically, the boss’s advances could help you to proceed further. However, if you are in a relationship and committed, the boss’s interest in you may be embarrassing and repelling.
Knowing your boss and the kind of temperament he/she has will help you to decide if he/she is genuinely interested in you or not. It may be that the boss finds you just attractive and is not looking for a serious involvement with you.
The boss may also make advances knowing that you are in a position of subservience and you may not be able to voice your protest against him/her.
Attention and affection of a boss could be flattering and warming, however, think twice before you take a step. Analyze the kind of person your boss is, and what exactly is he/she looking out for. Does he/she need you to have a gala time at workplace, is looking for an extramarital relationship, or is looking at you as the prospective partner.
Do not jump at the knowledge that your boss is interested in you. His power and personality may be stunning; however, there may be deceit and unhealthy intentions.
Observe the advances he is making. It is gentlemanly or vulgar, having sexual underpinnings, underlying lust or desire to just get you. Keep your ears open and be aware if this has been the case with other employees to.
You may consider confiding about it to trusting colleagues to know if they are aware of such behavior by the boss.
Do not fall for the glamor and style displayed by the boss.
Ask yourself what you exactly feel about the boss, if he is the kind of person you would like to share your life with, what is it that you like about him or dislike about him and so on, and then decide the course of your actions.
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