Ending a Relationship
Ending a relationship of marriage, romantic involvement, live in relationship or relationships where a lot of emotional and physical closeness has existed could be a difficult and traumatic step to take. Initiating or ending a relationship may be easy, but the process of making it last or making it work is a tough one. However, the mental distress, helplessness, frustration or depressing feelings experienced while breaking a relationship can be too much to handle.
Sometimes relationships are ended in a moment of desperation, frustration or in an impulse when both the partners cannot control their temper, their tongue, their anger, hurt, or their ego and feel that they just want to break away from the relationship. Breaking away can really bring a sense of freedom and relief for some partners who have been feeling stagnated, tortured, unhappy, suffocated or exploited in the relationship.
Ending a relationship by mutual consent can make the process much smoother and probably less hurting than a relationship in which one partner wants to move out and the other one wants to give it another chance.
Communication and honest exchange of feelings and emotions may help partners to let go, as they may realize that there are many gaps and differences in the relationship that probably cannot be mended.
Rather than ending the relationship with bitter arguments, name calling, abusing, blaming or assigning guilt etc, a less dramatic and less emotional ending will be better. Couples may have loads of things to tell each other. If the desire to vent out and speak about their disappointments is present among both of them, they may speak about those things, express apologies for not being able to handle things in a better way and then move out.
If couples are too fed up of the disappointments and grievances experienced, a better approach may be to just move out of each others way without opening up the matter for discussion.
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