Do You Feel Your Partner Doesn’t Understand You?
Feeling misunderstood or not understood by the partner can put you in a fix. You may feel disappointed, upset, dissatisfied because you are not able to convey your feelings exactly to the partner and the partner is also unable to understand you, your mind, your feelings etc.
This can lead to considerable doubts about the way your relationship may turn out to be. You may fear that your partner will not understand you, won’t be sensitive to your needs, you may not feel compatible with him, may fear that there won’t be emotional satisfaction or assurance due to this lack of understanding.
Consider the time that has passed since you entered the relationship. If you haven’t spent enough time with each other, haven’t had talks about in depth feelings, haven’t explored each other’s personality, characteristics etc, it may only be natural that there is lower understanding between both of you. Let some more time pass and some more meetings take place before you decide that the partner is incapable of understanding you.
Also consider your own nature. It may be possible that the partner is having difficulty in understanding you as you are reserved, do not open up yourself or speak honestly about yourself, are reluctant to reveal your characteristics, may be you are moody, inconsistent and unpredictable. These things may make it difficult for the partner to understand you and it needs more co-operation and effort from your side to make things easier.
Lack of understanding can be a real problem if the partner does not have the maturity or sensitivity to be in an intimate and personal relationship. His people skills, maturity, insight on people, ability to gauge situations, feel emotions may not have developed.
Or the partner may not be proactive and may not take effort to know you better. He may be preoccupied with his own world and not taking enough interest in getting to know the person you are. Talk to him about your feelings and if he gets aggressive, is self righteous, is not willing to see his mistake, doesn’t want to change things about himself and is causing you a lot of distress, reconsider if you want the relationship with him.
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