Dealing With A Person Pursuing You For Relationship
Posted by
jyoti on Tuesday 21 Jul 2009
A person may express a romantic interest in you and may not back off when you disapprove of it and say clearly that you are not interested.Such people may spot you at a local shop or near school, college, bus stand, on the road or anywhere and express their interest in you repeatedly.
It can be very threatening to move out of the house for fear that he may catch up with you, you may feel vulnerable to be on your own, or may be irritated at having to think twice before you step out of the house. There may also be fear of the consequence that your constant denial may have, fear that a known person may watch you with him, what the person will do in desperation to get you and so on.
Gauge the kind of person he is. If he constantly keeps making passes at you, but is still harmless or unthreatening, there may not be a reason to feel alarmed or panicky. Just refuse and ignore him. Do not display your discomfort, sympathy or sorrow for him. Your concern for his condition may just encourage him to pursue you more.
Be alert and watch out if he is nearby. Be in a group or around public so that he does not get a chance to approach and talk to you. If you can, change your way everyday so that you do not have to meet him.
Do not show that you are disturbed by his presence. Do not show worry or fear. Put an attitude of indifference or let your face show the dislike for him. Your look of plain dislike, disinterest or anger may just put him off.
If his advances or pursuits are getting more intimate and if you feel very threatened by it consider telling about it to your parents so that they intervene in the matter and keep you safe.
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