Dating Tips for Women
Dating is a special occasion for women. It makes you feel valued, different, fills you up with anticipation, joy and anxiety too. Dating must be a very warm and pleasant experience. As much as you would love the guy to make the dating a memorable and fun experience, some initiatives on your part would also help the process.
You may feel anxious or nervous about the date and same goes for the guy too. Panicking will make things difficult or odd for both of you. Try to relax and calm down. Don’t let your anticipation and nervousness show; it will make things difficult for the guy too.
Be proactive. Don’t leave everything to the guy. You can yourself break the ice or reservation, hesitation or shyness by beginning communication, talking about yourself, asking about the guy and so on. This openness will help both of you to develop a rapport easily and prevent the awkwardness that develops due to silence/shyness.
Have an easy body language. Do not display rigid gestures like crossing your hands across your chest, crossing your legs, having a serious expression etc. Make eye contact; this is very important so that both of you feel involved and together in the process.
Be open and honest. Be cheerful rather than being fidgety and panicky. Don’t be distracted or wear a tensed expression; it may spoil the mood of the date. Have a good sense of humour and take things lightly. Don’t be touchy or sentimental about certain things the guy may say.
Dress pleasantly and comfortably for the date. Wear something that makes you feel confident and smart, something that raises your spirits, cheers you up and brings out your extrovert personality. Wearing clothes that are good looking but subdue your actual personality could be counter productive.
Wear clothes that make you feel comfortable with yourself. Avoid wearing clothes that will make you feel very conscious, shy or self aware. This will not only distract you but also the guy. Don’t go out of the way to dress for the date and make it very obvious. Choose clothes that are your personal favourite and enhances your personality.
Be yourself during the date. Don’t show yourself to be someone you are not. Act like it is a friendly interaction; this will reduce the anxiety and nervousness.