Dating Tips for Men
Dating can be one of the most memorable and exciting events of anyone’s life. If not handled and planned well, it can turn out to be disappointing. Men need to take more interest and efforts in making the date a success as the girl draws many impressions about the person through the way he handles, arranges, plans and organizes the date.
There may be nervousness, anticipation, anxiety about the date, as well as enthusiasm and interest. Show your positive feelings to the girl in question; guard against displaying your nervousness and anxiety.
Have a good body language. Have an easy open manner. Be relaxed; this will help the girl to be relaxed too. Don’t be fidgety and edgy. Have a good mood, be cheerful and upbeat about the whole thing. Be alert about the situation of the girl. Ensure that she is comfortable and having a good time. Don’t be distracted; be involved with her.
Guard against over familiarity or very intimate gesture on the first date. Position yourself slightly away from her chair so that she doesn’t feel her space is being violated.
Choose proper attire for the event. Select clothes that suit you the best. If you feel formal clothes with a full sleeved shirt and trousers bring out the best in you, wear those. Or else if you feel that shirt and jeans enhance your personality go with it. Clothes make a perfect outward impression, speak about the kind of person you are and also how seriously you are taking the date. Don’t under dress or over dress. Just keep it causal and pleasant.
Select the location and time that will be convenient to the girl too. It will make her feel that you are sensitive to her needs, are considerate about her time, and are saving her the effort required in travelling.
Consult her if there is a special place she would like to go to. If not, choose the location in such a way that it offers you good space and privacy, comfort and coziness; and is not a place that is very noisy and full of people chattering.
Be on time. Never make the lady wait.
Welcome her with a bouquet or a give her a gift while ending the date.