Creating A Healthy Bond Between Teenage Daughter And Father
Teenage brings about a lot of changes in girls. There are physical changes like development of breasts, change in the shape, the feel about the body, hormonal changes, changes in the way the teenager sees herself or feels about teenage.
There may be emotional changes that may be healthy or unhealthy depending upon the way the teenager accepts the teenage and the changes. If the teenager accepts the changes with comfort and feels positively about it, her interaction with the male members may be maintained at the same level.
However, if the teenager has a poor reaction to the growth of her body, does not feel comfortable, feels shy, under confident, then the way she interacts with the opposite sex can take a beating.
An important twist can also be the manner in which she interacts with her father. If the girl has had a close and warm relationship with the father, has shared physical gestures like hugging or giving a good night kiss, she may alter her physical interaction with her father on attaining teenage.
She may feel awkward doing so, or may feel that it is not appropriate now, or may sometimes sense the hesitation of the father himself and may reduce her contact with the father.
Fathers play a crucial role in helping the girl to come to terms with the teenage. Be proactive. Do not hesitate to give the daughter the daily hug. Bear in mind the physical and emotional changes in the girl but do not create distance between her and yourself due to awkwardness or just because the girl is growing up.
One way of sharing a good bonding is by taking small trips or shopping with the daughter. This time spent together will help you to engage with each other in an easy and comfortable way. You will also get to know the likes and dislikes of your daughter and you can make her happy by bringing her favourite eatables or clothes as a surprise.
Do not be strict with her. Keep all channels of communication open. Discuss freely about her growth, the challenges that come with teenage, and assure her of your support and assistance. In this way father and teenage daughter became best friends.
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