Breaking Up With Dignity
Posted by
writer3 on Monday 10 Nov 2008
It can be your fault or your partner’s as well. But once your relation has reached the saturation point, you need to break off. If you are sure that your relation is on a point, where you can not feel any thing for your partner then tell this to him. But while you are backing up from a relation, you need to be a bit considerate. There are ways that you need to observe, before giving him this shock.
When you break up, your partner should not be absolutely clueless of your decision. Do not give him a life time shock! Make sure you provide him with ample hint of your intentions, before actually declaring your decision, so that it does not shatter him. Break up can be very hard for your going to be ex. So you need to consider his feelings. While breaking away, try to be polite and make him understand your view. Tell him the good reasons you have in the favor of your decision. Be clear in your words, while also being compassionate. Do not waver from your decision if you are quite sure about righteousness of your decision. But your being harsh can be very painful. So mind your words and the expression.
You also need to think about the place you are choosing to tell him about it. Avoid being very much in public, or crowded area. It’s your personal life you are going to talk about. And you need not wash your Lenin in public. It need not be a very lonely place. Choose a common yet comfortable place. The day you choose for this should not be a significant day. Like the day you met for the first time, his birth day or your birth day. This can spoil this “meant to be” special day.
Your break up is a part of your personal life. And it is best to keep your life to yourself. Do not go telling your friends or relatives about it before talking to him. You also need not involve any of your friends. You and your partner are enough for the moment. Moreover, involvement of others can embitter the memory of this day all the more.
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