Boyfriend Doesn’t Take Initiative
Lack of initiative on the part of the boyfriend can send wrong signals, could create confusion and misunderstanding in the relationship. You may feel deprived, feel lack of romance, feel that the partner is not sensitive to your needs and this may be demotivating and disappointing to you.
Most women prefer the partner to take initiative in the relationship, be it in inviting her for a date, deciding on meeting, fixing up a lunch/dinner or planning a romantic time. If you are confronted with a situation where your partner doesn’t take this kind of initiative and you are the one who has to push him, it may make you feel that probably the partner is not interested in you deeply, doesn’t know what you desire, or is stubborn enough to not take the first step, is playing games with you and so on.
Ask the partner about this tendency. Do not confront him with this. Do not talk in a manner of assigning blame or expressing your frustration about it. Tell him that you noticed he doesn’t take initiative and ask if he feels a particular hindrance about you or if there is any other reason. This knowledge is pivotal to understanding his reservation or hesitation.
Tell him about your stand. Express or drop a hint about how you feel about it and see the response he gives you. Knowing that you are keen on him to make the first move may come as an encouragement for him and he may begin to shed his inhibitions.
If he finds it difficult to make the move, do it yourself. Establish some kind of a practice between both of you. Once a certain level of familiarity and comfort is reached, the partner may come around and take initiative about the routine practices atleast.
Do not hurry him if he is hesitating. Be patient, accommodating and giving.
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